Too many girls rush into relationships because of the fear of being single,
Then start making compromises and losing their identity
Don’t do that.
I’m 27 gonna be 28 soon, single, with no boyfriend or fiancé or whatever, living my life to its fullest.
In Asia, being single (not married or don’t have any boyfriend) in 27 is either you can’t attract a guy or you’re lesbian and afraid to admit it (Majority Of Asian country wont accept LGBT). Good thing is, I’m neither of those.
I have guys chasing after me but I made myself unavailable for them. I may go out from time to time, hang out, chillin, but that doesn’t mean they have my heart. I’ve been hurt before and that’s one of the biggest reason that I’m stayin single. I’m not afraid of what the society think of me. Even when my parents started to comparing me with the others, I stand firm on what I believe. I’m sure there are other women like me out there. It’s a huge world after all.
My ideal marriage is to be married with someone you truly love. You can’t just get married for the of getting married. That’s beyond stupid. I have a friend who’s getting married out of obligation. And now? He’s unhappy, living separated from his wife and kids. That’s how scary it can be if you marry for the wrong reason and unluckily with the wrong person as well. Please, don’t do that.. We only have one life and don’t make it miserable.
Well, it’s not like I don’t wanna get married. It’s every women dream to get married to the man they love sincerely from the bottom of their heart. So men, please make that day the best day every. Because it will mark the first journey of you two together as man and wife.
I do wanna get married but I’m not rushing it. If I feel he’s the one, I will wait for a bit longer and see if he’s really the one. It’s not easy to find “the one”, I can vouch for that. I’ve been with many men just to get disappointed over and over again. Well, that’s life. Accumulating experience so you’ll know what to do next time. Lol. But I never rush into a relationship just because I fear that no one will love me once I hit 30. I know God prepare someone for me out there. It’s just we took our time finding each other. Not as fast as others. After a long and winding road, I believe we will meet somehow, somewhere.
So dear fellow comrades, never rush into a relationship. Just let it flow. Open your eyes and heart carefully. Be smart. Be funny. More importantly, be who you really are. Because you don’t wanna be trapped in a relationship where you have to work 24/7 as an actress. Meaning, faking yourself. I know I wouldn’t want that.